Legal basics · England & Wales

How to read a ParentGlow court pack

A court pack is the record ParentGlow can export for any set of dates: who had the children, what was agreed, what was paid, what was said at handovers. Here is a complete sample, made by the app's own export from a made-up family — and a walk through every page of it.

PDF, 12 pages, 116 KB. Every person, date and record in it is made up, and every page says so.

In plain English

What a court pack is, and isn't.

In the app, a parent picks a period and downloads a Complete record pack: one indexed PDF with the family's expenses, calendar, schedule changes, the parents' messages (the pack calls them handover notes) and the messages on each handover for those dates. Smaller packs for just messages, just the calendar or just expenses are made from the same sections.

It is a record to have ready, not a court bundle. Under the court bundle rules in England and Wales, messages go into a bundle only when the court directs it, or when particular messages are genuinely needed for the judge to read — more on that below. A pack is the source a solicitor, a mediator or the court can ask to see, and pick from. If there are court proceedings, the judge's directions in that case come first, and the court tells each party what to file and when — a pack isn't something to send to the court or to Cafcass unprompted.

The sample, page by page

One calm month, page by page.

The sample covers February 2026 for the Thompsons: Rachel and Mark share Sophie and Liam week about, with handovers at the school gate. Nothing dramatic happens. That's the point — this is what an ordinary record looks like.

  1. Cover

    The dates the pack covers, when it was made, and how many records of each kind are inside. The line at the bottom, the document reference, is a value worked out from the records the pack contains. See page 1

  2. Index

    Every section and the page it starts on. In the PDF each line links to its page, and every section is bookmarked, so a reader can jump straight to it. See page 2

  3. Expense Register

    Every expense logged for those dates: what it was, who paid, how much, how it was split, and where it stands. In the sample: five agreed, one refused, one still being discussed and one waiting for a reply. See page 3

  4. Refused and Disputed Expenses

    Anything refused or still being discussed, set out on its own with the reason given. In the sample, a winter coat was refused because the parents had agreed to use the school’s second-hand sale — and the cheaper coat from the sale is in the register a few days later, agreed. See page 4

  5. Parenting-Time Summary

    How many nights the children spent with each parent over the period, counted from the family’s calendar. In the sample: fourteen each, a week-about pattern with one agreed swap. See page 5

  6. Event Log

    Every calendar event in the period — school events, clubs, appointments, holidays — with the children involved and who was down for pick-up and drop-off. See page 6

  7. Schedule-Change History

    Every request to change who has the children when: who asked, the reason, and the other parent’s answer with the date and time they gave it. In the sample, Rachel asks to swap one Friday for another, and Mark agrees. See page 7

  8. Handover Notes

    The app’s Messages: every message sent between the parents in the period, with who wrote it, when, which child it was about if one was chosen, and when the other parent first saw it. The pack titles this section Handover Notes. See page 8

  9. Handover messages & checklist

    For each handover: the date, the planned time and which way the children went; the messages about that handover, with who sent each and when; and the packing checklist, including a missing-PE-kit query and how it was settled. See page 8

  10. Professional Access

    A log of every time a professional a parent had given access to — a solicitor or mediator, say — viewed or downloaded part of the family’s record. The sample family has given nobody access, and the page says so. See page 11

  11. About These Records

    What the pack covers, whether anything in the period was left out, how the records were kept, and a note for anyone who attaches the pack to a witness statement. See page 11

  12. Disclaimer

    The pack says in its own words that ParentGlow does not certify its contents, and that the weight given to it is a matter for the court. See page 12

For solicitors, mediators and McKenzie Friends

How each part is made.

The detail behind each section, for anyone who needs to know how much weight the record can bear.

The cover and the document reference

The reference is derived from the individual records reproduced in the pack; records that had been altered would not produce the same reference. There is no tool for checking it. The time on the cover is when the pack was made. Times throughout the pack are UK time: GMT in winter, BST in summer.

Expenses

Refused and disputed entries are kept, not removed. The parent who logged an expense can correct or remove it until the other parent responds to it, or anyone comments on it; after that it can no longer be edited or deleted. ParentGlow keeps a history of every change, each with a server-applied time.

Calendar, parenting time and schedule changes

Events appear as they stand when the pack is made. Parenting time is counted from the calendar’s overnight allocation; a day shared between both homes counts half to each parent. The schedule-change history covers one-off swaps, changes to the regular pattern and school-holiday plans. A schedule one parent set up before the other joined says so, and records that no response was given — it never reads as agreed.

Handover notes (the app’s Messages) and photos

A message is sealed when it is sent: ParentGlow gives no way to edit or delete it. “First viewed by” is recorded once, the first time the message was on the other parent’s screen with the app open. Photos are never printed; a photo attached to a message is listed by its file type, its size and a SHA-256 fingerprint of the file.

Handover messages

A message cannot be edited or deleted once it is sent, and it is printed exactly as it was sent, with the time ParentGlow received it. The checklist keeps its whole trail: who added each item, when it was packed and received, and any query about it, with the answer and when it was settled.

Professional access

Each view or download by a professional is added to a chained access log. ParentGlow checks that log before it makes a Complete record pack and will not make one if the log does not check out. Each of these times says whether it is GMT or BST.

Completeness, and the witness-statement note

A pack covers what the parent who made it can see. If their record of the family begins part-way through the period, the pack says it is not a complete record, gives the date their record begins and counts the entries it leaves out, instead of claiming nothing was omitted. The closing note explains that whoever relies on the pack in a witness statement is responsible for checking its contents under a statement of truth (Practice Direction 17A). Whether any of it goes before the court is for the court's directions — see the bundle rules below.

This sample file

SHA-256 of the file you download here: eeb7076959b1fc74a5b2c04ead79ac42bd392ebdcd9ec2144b918024c8027c8b. It was made from the made-up month by the same export code a parent’s app uses, then marked as a sample, and it is regenerated whenever that export changes.

What it leaves out, on purpose

A record of what happened, nothing more.

  • Anything you typed but never sent. The words you are typing are not stored, so there is no first draft or "before" version to print — only what was actually sent.
  • Private drop-off times. If a parent privately records when a handover actually happened, that record stays theirs. It never appears in a shared pack.
  • Photos. A photo attached to a note is listed, not printed. Under the court bundle rules, photographs generally stay out of a bundle (see below).
  • Your family's documents and child details. Documents stored in the app, and each child's health and school information, are not part of the pack.
  • Anything a parent can't see. A pack covers what the parent who made it can see. If that is less than the family's full record for the period, the pack says so, and counts what it leaves out.

Tone Guard in a pack

Your first draft stays yours.

Tone Guard is the app's AI check that flags wording which might read as heated before a message is sent. The words you are typing are not stored, so a pack never contains a draft.

One thing can appear. On the handover screen, if a parent sends a message after Tone Guard flagged the draft, both parents see a small marker on it, and the pack notes “Tone flag recorded” beside it. It means Tone Guard had flagged the wording on that parent's phone when they sent it. The pack does not say what was flagged or why, and the message is printed exactly as it was sent.

A note on a schedule proposal is checked once more when you send it, and that check is kept with the proposal. It is not part of the court pack; ParentGlow's separate schedule-consent export can include it, and its spreadsheet version includes the words that were flagged.

The sample month has no flagged messages.

Has it been changed?

What a pack can tell you about itself.

There is no tool for checking a pack. What the pack itself gives you:

  • The times on messages, notes and replies are stamped by ParentGlow's own server when it receives them; a parent doesn't type them in. (An expense's date is the date the parent says it was spent.)
  • Messages, including those about a handover, can't be edited or deleted once sent. An expense can't be changed once the other parent has responded to it or anyone has commented on it, and every earlier change is kept.
  • The cover's document reference is worked out from the records in the pack. Records that had been altered would not produce the same reference.

Where the authenticity of a document is disputed, the court has its own procedures, and it decides.

Before a pack goes anywhere

Three things worth knowing before you share one.

  • Read it through first. Messages and notes are printed exactly as they were written, so anything typed into them — an address, a phone number, a school — is in the pack. The family court rules let a parent keep their own and their child's address and contact details from the other parties (rule 29.1); if that matters to you, speak to a solicitor before a pack reaches anyone.
  • Keep the file as ParentGlow made it. A cropped, edited or retyped copy is easier to challenge than the original file.
  • Share it only with the people helping you — a solicitor, a mediator, a McKenzie Friend, an adviser — never publicly or online, and not by pasting it into a public AI tool. If there are court proceedings about your children, strict rules limit who information from them can be shared with (rule 12.73).

The court bundle rules, in brief

How the rules in England and Wales treat a record like this.

The current version of Practice Direction 27A, in force since 2 March 2026, sets out what goes into a court bundle in family cases.

  • A bundle should hold only the documents the court needs to read, or that will actually be referred to at the hearing (paragraph 5.2).
  • Unless the court directs otherwise, it leaves out, among other things, correspondence; emails, texts, messaging-app and social media messages; voice notes; bank and other financial records; notes of contact visits; and photographs. Specific documents that are necessary for the court to read can still go in (paragraph 5.2).
  • Those documents can't be brought back in by attaching them to a witness statement (paragraph 7.3(c)).
  • An electronic bundle is limited to 350 pages unless the court gives permission (paragraph 11.2(b)).

So which pages of a pack, if any, reach a bundle is for the court's directions in each case. ParentGlow's pack is designed with those rules in mind: a searchable PDF, an index at the front, bookmarks for every section, and page numbers printed by the computer that match the PDF's own. It is not a finished bundle.

Parents representing themselves can use the judiciary's own guide to preparing court bundles, which Practice Direction 27A links to.

Practice Direction 27A applies in England and Wales. In Scotland, documents are lodged as productions under the sheriff's control; in Northern Ireland, nothing beyond what the rules require is filed without the court's leave. In every nation, the court's own directions decide.

Quick answers

Court pack questions.

Is the family in the sample real?

No. Rachel, Mark, Sophie and Liam Thompson are ParentGlow's made-up demo family, and every date and record in the sample is invented. It was made by the app's own export code from fictional records, on a test system that holds no real data.

Will a court accept a ParentGlow court pack?

That is always for the court to decide, case by case, and nobody can honestly promise otherwise. The pack is organised to be easy to use if it is ever needed — dated, indexed and paginated — and it says itself that the weight given to it is a matter for the court.

Can a pack include a draft or a message that was never sent?

No. The words you are typing are not stored, so there is no draft to print. Messages, including those about a handover, cannot be edited or deleted once sent, so a pack shows what was actually sent.

Does making a pack cost anything?

No. Exporting your family's record is always free, including after a plan ends: past records stay readable in the app for 30 days, and you can export all of it, free, at any time.

Why does a section say there is nothing in it?

Every section is always included, so a reader can see that nothing was left out: an empty section says so rather than disappearing.

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